(Today’s column)
The last time I watched the opening and closing ceremonies of the Olympics was in 1992. I was pregnant with my first child and bedridden. Those were pre-cable TV days and there was nothing much to choose from. It was the Olympics or those darn afternoon soap operas. I’m not a huge sports fan, obviously, although there was a time when I was. Then, I learned about politics and cheating in sports, especially in professional sports, and I lost interest.
Still, I found myself riveted when I chanced upon a replay of the opening ceremonies of the Beijing Olympics. I was so mesmerized that, for several minutes, I totally forgot why the Olympic games have long ceased to be just about competition, excellence and sportsmanship. The commercials reminded me that the Olympics were just another venue for making money. True for the sponsors and advertisers. True, too, for every host country that dreams of cashing in with the hope that the international media attention will boost their respective tourism industries. It’s true for the athletes as well many of whom dream of cinching endorsement deals even before the closing ceremonies have ended.
When I remember the times when “officials” outnumbered the athletes in the Philippine delegations to so many international sports events, the sour taste in my mouth grows stronger.
Jaded, am I not? But something happened last week that interrupted my jaded thoughts. I went to dinner with some college friends and they came back with me to see the new house. I was showing them the second floor when my older daughter, Sam, opened the door of the family room sleepily and handed me a piece of paper. Please print, she said. I knew she needed it for school the following day.
After my friends left a couple of hours later, there I was typing the document so I could print it. It was an essay in Filipino. Last week being Linggo ng Wika, I thought it was something for the closing program. What a surprise I got when the girls came home the following day with the announcement that the essay won third place. What was it about and why did it interrupt my jaded thoughts? Here’s a paragraph from the essay:
“Malayo na ang narating ng mga Pilipino. Maraming parangal na ang natanggap; marami nang medalyang naiuwi. Maraming beses na ring nabigo ang mga Pilipino. Nasa dugo na natin ang lumaban at hindi sumuko, tanggapin kung ano ang mayroon tayo, magpasalamat at makuntento. Marami na ring nagawa ang mga Pilipino na maipagmamalaki natin sa buong mundo tulad ng Banaue Rice Terraces na nagpapakita ng ating kasipagan, determinasyon at tiyaga ng bawa’t tao hindi man kilala sa buong mundo.”
(The Filipinos have gone far. Many have received honors; many have brought home medals. We have failed many times too. But it is in our blood to fight on and never surrender, accept what is ours, be thankful and feel content. The Filipinos have achieved a lot of things too that we can tell the world about with pride, like the Banaue Rice Terraces, that showcases the diligence, determination and patience of people whom the world may not know by name.)
That last sentence captures it all. Unknown men and women do things everyday, individually or collectively, and the world does not even hear of them. Yet, what they do are genuine sources of pride. They do not hanker for publicity, they do not ask for medals and they expect no riches. The Ifugaos of old who built the Rice Terraces could not have had fame and glory in mind. They persevered to survive and improve their lives and the result is a monument to their determination, skill and excellence. Despite my jaded mind, I suspect that they have their present-day counterparts –people for whom it is more important to do their best even when there is no crowd to cheer them on.
Many Filipinos compete and search for excellence every single day and very few know their names. Some compete in fields that do not even reach the eyes and ears of the publicity moguls and the corporate hawks who are always ready to sponsor a talent if there is a chance for favorable exposure and profit. How many have heard of Mary Christine Villanueva, Don Clavo de Comer, Joel Forte and the other Filipino photographers who are finalists in this year’s People’s Choice Award in the annual international photo contest sponsored by the Australian company, Snowden? Nine out of the 30 finalists are by Filipinos and the finalists come from all over the world. Ah, you’ve never heard of it. Not surprising.
If excellence achieved by fellow Filipinos is a source of pride for us all, then, we ought to know that there are more achievers and excellence-seekers beyond those that media and corporate sponsors tell us to idolize and support. Some of them may actually give deeper and more genuine meaning to the terms “excellence” and “national pride.” And they may even include you and me.





















{ 26 comments… read them below or add one }
Kotsengkuba 08.26.08 at 8:23 pm
whenever a “filipino” name would rise from an international competition (say, jazmin trias from american idol) it is very easy for the philippine media to pick up on the news and the rest of the filipinos would start claiming them as “filipino” talents.
sometimes, i wonder whether those “filipinos” would claim their bloody origins if not for philippine publicity. they may be of filipino decent but being born and raised and never even stepped foot once in the philippines, had they not lost their right to be hailed “filipino” talents?
lol
Connie Veneracion 08.26.08 at 8:37 pm
They don’t enter those competitions as Filipinos, in the first place. It’s just the local media that make such a big deal about their ancestry. I don’t know what it is — why many Filipinos see Fil-Ams as necessarily talented and deserving of breaks. That guy in the Sun cellular ads — what’s his name?? Gee, where’s the talent? But he got all the breaks almost as soon as he landed in the Philippines and all because of what? His Fil-Am status?
JMonreal 08.26.08 at 10:41 pm
Filipinos are very talented and hard working. That’s why they are in demand almost all over the world. The big moneyed corporation knows that madali tayo ma sway ng media, so they prefer to hire somebody who comes from abroad.
Connie Veneracion 08.26.08 at 11:10 pm
As the saying goes, walang manloloko kung walang paloloko. Of course, some will always try.
JMonreal 08.27.08 at 12:19 am
I should add that we have all the talented sons/daughters of the Philippines and the natural resources to be proud of, but we are still a poor country. Why are we not as progressive as Japan or Korea? Soon other countries such as Thailand, Indonesia, Malaysia and Vietnam will leave us behind. Are we not ambitious enough? What happened to our Filipino pride?
Connie Veneracion 08.27.08 at 12:33 am
Talent is negated with attitudes like “pwede na”, “bahala na”, ningas kugon…
al bals 08.27.08 at 4:52 am
PHILIPPINES HAS NO BALLS. YOU WORSHIP A WHITE GOD AND WHITE PEOPLE, HAVE NO NATIONAL UNITY OR PRIDE. YOUR WOMEN ARE WHORES AND MAIDS. YOUR MEN ARE WEAK, WHINE AND ALWAYS BEG FOR A HANDOUT. A PATHETIC EXAMPLE OF HUMANITY.
Connie Veneracion 08.27.08 at 7:04 am
And I suppose you have met each and every one of the millions of Filipinos to make such a sweeping statement… People who make stupid generalizations are… stupid.
al bals 08.27.08 at 7:54 am
THE CATHOLIC CHURCH AND IT’S VERSION OF CHRISTIANITY HAS MADE THE FILIPINOS WEAK. TO BE ASSERTIVE AND AGGRESSIVE HAVE BECOME A NEGATIVE TRAIT IN THEIR CULTURE. INSTEAD THEY ARE TAUGHT TO BE HUMBLE AND SUBMISSIVE. IT DOESN’T WORK IN THIS RUTHLESS WORLD.
Connie Veneracion 08.27.08 at 8:05 am
Agree. But your first comment is still stupid.
Miguk 08.27.08 at 9:06 am
al bals I hope you are not one of those white people because you are an embarrasement to us if you are. Humility doesn’t work? I’m sure Gandhi would be surprised to hear that.
Kotsengkuba 08.27.08 at 9:15 am
al bals, wait until we dominate the world with the maids that you abhor.
and americans are pink right?
Miguk 08.27.08 at 10:27 am
Pink? Obama doesn’t look pink at all. Another stupid generalization methinks….
ormocanon 08.27.08 at 11:07 am
“Unknown men and women do things everyday, individually or collectively, and the world does not even hear of them. Yet, what they do are genuine sources of pride.” - Ms Connie
I absolutely agree Ms. Connie; Media tend to focus on sports heroes and film celebrities as some kind of role models, and I got no problem with that.
But as for me, I’m more down-to-earth. I tend to idolize my former co-workers, among others, who, in spite of their circumstances, still put a premium on providing their children a decent college education.
A son of a former colleague of mine is now a supervisor in one section of the copper smelter I used to be connected with.
In their own way, they contribute something to improve our economy…the end product being distributed and finding their way to such places as China, Korea, and other countries where copper is a vital component in manufacturing their own products.
Tom 08.27.08 at 1:11 pm
We sucked at the games and no amount of rhetoric could mask that simple fact.
Miguk 08.27.08 at 1:31 pm
I agree and concur completely with ormocanon. The real heroes are the men and women who work all day to make ends meet then come home to another full time job of keeping it together on the home front. Glamourizing and idolizing thugs and criminals is just wrong.
Mike 08.27.08 at 3:24 pm
I think Al Bals words are extremely harsh and generalized. However in my travels to the Philippines I was dumbfounded by a lot of Filipinos wanting white skin. So much so, I actually saw commercials for skin whitener. That is sad, plain and simple. Why? Filipino people are beautiful naturally, why do you want to be white?
Not a criticism just an observation.
Sorry if I offended anyone.
Mike 08.27.08 at 3:27 pm
Miguk- What or who do you mean when you say thugs and criminals. Please be more specific.
Connie Veneracion 08.27.08 at 5:20 pm
These days, Tom, it just means we don’t have money for trainers, equipment and steroids. Losing would hurt if athletes compete on a level playing field. But they don’t.
Mike, it’s colonial mentality. It’s always been there and, sadly, being encouraged and immortalized by businesses, entertainment, advertising and media. Just look at the faces of entertainment personalities on TV, models’ and celebrities that make it to the covers of magazines. Only once in a blue moon will you see a brown Asian face. So, it all becomes a vicious cycle.
BlogusVox 08.27.08 at 5:20 pm
Hmm… this is what I missed from your blog Ms. Sassy. The sudden entrance of “anomalies” like Al Bals. Now all we need are the opinions of vic and Tom and will have a reunion! : )
Connie Veneracion 08.27.08 at 5:28 pm
BlogusVox, Micketymoc and Vic oughta have a reunion LOL. Will gladly host it. hehehe
Mike 08.27.08 at 11:08 pm
First off Connie, thanks for understanding that I was not trying to be a wise ass. But I think you’re right and the same could probably be said in any number of countries where colonial rule took place.
As I stated before, there are very few countries on this planet with more natural beauty than the Philippines.
Tom 08.27.08 at 11:51 pm
Money, money, money/ must be funny/ in a rich man’s world/
Connie Veneracion 08.28.08 at 1:06 am
Loco, loco, loco/ must be lonely/ in a smart girl’s world
Miguk 08.28.08 at 8:10 am
Mike: Who are the people most popular and celebrated nowadays? The gangsters and their rapper doppelgangers. Whatever happened to promoting proper role models for the younger generation.
Agree with the natural beauty of the pinay. Too bad the overwhelming consensus here is “if it ain’t white, it ain’t right” which is really sad.
JMonreal 08.31.08 at 12:06 am
Our Anglo-American doctor friend always remind us that “white ain’t right” when it comes to food. Eat brown rice instead of white rice, wheat bread instead of white bread, and root crops instead of french fries.
We also have a lot of Anglo-American friends who loves (will die for) our darker skin complexion. Why do you think they have all these tanning machines all over?
Let’s face it. A lot of foreign nationals are married to Pinays and Pinoys not only for brain and beauty, but also for our character. That’s something we can be proud of.