In Taiwan: a dead man’s concubines

by Connie Veneracion on July 25, 2007



We were on our way to Yehliu in northeast Taiwan when we stopped at an intersection to give way to a funeral procession. We crowded in front of the bus and started taking photos through the windshield. Of course, the costumed figures stood out. I asked the tour guide what they represented and she said each figure represented one concubine.

concubines

There are five figures visible and another is partly hidden between those with green and orange flowers on their heads. I commented that that was a lot of concubines and the tour guide said it was a rich man’s funeral. So, the number of concubines was proportional to a man’s wealth?

I didn’t ask anymore. I’ve long ago learned that cultures will always differ and it isn’t wise to judge another based on the standards of one’s own culture. I used to smirk when I read about widows in India setting themselves on fire after their husband’s death but I don’t anymore. I mean, it’s not like monogamy — imposed by Christianity — guarantees the best and most stable society. So, live and let live.

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1

rolly 07.26.07 at 6:20 am

KAhit pala taga Taiwan ako, I will never have the benefit of having more than one wife. Hindi ako wealthy eh. hehehe

2

Connie 07.26.07 at 9:52 am

Aba, at kung wealthy ka, type mo magka-concubines ano? Sumbong kita kay Tita Nitz hahahaha

3

KK 07.26.07 at 10:21 am

Great to ’see’ you safely home Ate Connie. I didn’t know that Taiwan had that sort of culture. It’s true that we really shouldn’t judge another culture based on what we grew up with.

4

Jon Limjap 07.26.07 at 11:41 am

Siguro sa India pwedeng gawin nung wife eh ituro yung favorite kabit at sabihin na siya talaga yung wife kaya sya dapat sunugin, hehehehe.

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Connie 07.26.07 at 12:06 pm

Thanks, KK. Back home at naghahabol hehehe

Jon, am not sure if Indian culture is also polygamous.

6

Ann 07.26.07 at 12:29 pm

India claims to have the most successful marriages when it comes to non-separation status among couples. And yes, hindi din uso ang polygamy sa kanila.

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Kongkong 07.26.07 at 12:49 pm

Ganun pala sa Taiwan. Sino dyan ang “legal wife”? Hehehe…Then maybe Dolphy should have his funeral there. Haba siguro ng prusisyon :)

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Connie 07.26.07 at 3:20 pm

Yah, that’s what I recall, Ann. One-to-one in India.

LOL Kongkong, palagay ko mas mahaba ang prusisyon kung si Ramon Revilla. :razz:

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luthien 07.26.07 at 5:22 pm

hindi paper concubines ang susunugin ko…yung asawa ko yung susunugin ko pag mahulihan ko siya. hahaha. ganda talaga ng timing natin jan. hehehe. bad trip wala akong zooooooooom lens kaya mga likod lang nila nakunan ko. wala akong DSLR, period.

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Connie 07.27.07 at 12:02 am

Oras na para bumili ng DSLR hehehehe Mage-enjoy ka, super. :)

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auee 07.27.07 at 10:37 pm

When I was in Shanghai, we ate at this resto which was supposedly a garden for some powerful guy’s concubine… Grabe ang laki nung lugar garden lang pala huh!

12

Connie 07.28.07 at 1:38 am

LOL concubine lang yun. Gano kaya kalaki yung garden ng asawa. hehehehe

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