Two seemingly unrelated events took place recently and now there’s renewed interest in the life and loves of assassinated United States President John Fitzgerald Kennedy. First, photographer Bert Sterns recreated, after 46 years, a Marilyn Monroe 1962 nude photo session later known as “The Last Sitting” with actress Lindsay Lohan as his model. The Lohan photos will come out in the New York Times magazine. You can’t mention Marilyn Monroe without giving JFK a passing thought.
The second event is the “discovery” of the identity of a man who claims to be the son of the late president. The story goes that a few years ago, a man named Jack Worthington, now 46, was informed by his mother that he was Kennedy’s son. According to the United Press International, Vanity Fair magazine had been quietly doing a story on Worthington for a year and a half. Then the gossipy New York Post blew the lid and published a story that Vanity Fair gave Senator Ted Kennedy a courtesy call prior to the publication of the story and the story never saw print. There’s the insinuation that the senator killed the story to avoid another family scandal.
How Vanity Fair discovered the Worthington paternity angle isn’t clear. The magazine had been doing a story on the paternal side of the family of Worthington’s mother, being “lifelong political allies” of Kennedy’s vice president and successor, Lyndon B. Johnson. For some reason, someone tripped on the illegitimate son angle. Worthington’s mother, who is still living but reportedly slamming the door on the press, was allegedly introduced to Kennedy by Johnson.
Worthington says Vanity Fair approached him and he agreed to do the story only after getting assurance that he would remain anonymous. As if, huh? At this point, he says he wants a DNA test to put finality to the issue. He also says that he is going on television to set the record straight. That doesn’t sound like a plea for anonymity to me.
Where it is all going is anyone’s guess. John F. Kennedy was not the first nor the only powerful man to sire an illegitimate child. And Worthington is not the first nor the only person to claim to be the child of a famous man. A decade or so ago, a young woman named Josephine publicly claimed that she was the daughter of Joseph Estrada. The physical resemblance is strong but, to this day, Estrada has not legally acknowledged her. Why neither opted for DNA tests is mind-boggling.
It set me wondering. There have been cases when adopted children had gone to so much trouble to find out who their biological parents were. There is an intense need to know, an obsessive craving to trace one’s roots. But with people who believe they already know who their parents are, like Worthington and Josephine, why is a public acknowledgment so important? For someone like me who grew up knowing both parents, it’s not easy to understand. Perhaps, it’s because I felt no lack and, therefore, had no gaps to fill. Apparently, there is a hole in the lives of people who grew up differently.
On the other hand, there have been cases too when claims of legitimacy or illegitimate paternity were rooted on money and/or power. Even during the medieval times in Europe, illegitimate children were important personages because they could be used as pawns in political games. Case in point, England’s House of Tudor. Henry VIII had six wives. His first marriage to the Spanish Princess Catherine of Aragon, who was also his brother’s widow, was annulled. His second wife, Anne Boleyn, was executed. His third wife, Jane Seymour, died of illness. All three wives bore him a child. Catherine gave birth to Mary, Anne bore Elizabeth and Jane was the mother of the male heir to the throne, Edward.
The line of succession was clear. Edward would be king after Henry. But Edward was a sickly boy. Who would rule after him? It was a time of war between Catholics and Protestants. The Protestants claimed that Henry’s first marriage was invalid and, therefore, Mary could not be a legitimate heir. The Catholics, on the other hand, claimed that the marriage was validly subsisting at the time that Henry married Anne Boleyn. The Boleyn marriage, therefore, was void ab initio and Elizabeth was a bastard child. The way Henry changed the laws so often, who could really say who was legitimate or illegitimate? The important thing was the acknowledgment. It was the acknowledgment that granted status and power.
That hasn’t changed in modern times. An acknowledged illegitimate child automatically earns a certain status and with it come privileges. The public acceptance by the parent, especially a wealthy and powerful one, opens a lot of doors. In the Philippines, if the parent is a politician, that can mean a lucrative political career for the illegitimate child. He doesn’t even need to work on it. The mere acknowledgment, the status of being a son or a daughter of someone famous, is enough. By some kind of osmosis, the fame, the power and the wealth rubs off on the offspring.
It’s not very different in other countries. President George W. Bush belongs to the second generation of politicians in his family. There have been so many Kennedys in government. I suppose it’s an offshoot of the Dark Ages. People are still benighted enough to believe that if the father was fit to rule, so are the sons and daughters. You know, as though the credentials of the parent naturally belong to the offspring as well. And that’s why our Congress is what it is.




















{ 25 comments… read them below or add one }
Gloria 02.21.08 at 8:25 pm
my mother is adopted. but because she was overflowingly loved and was raised well by her adopted parents, she never felt the need to trace her roots. even after she was told the truth and was even given leads where to start. her words: kung sino yung nagpalaki sa akin na tinuring akong tunay na anak, yun ang mga magulang ko. wala nang iba.
i grew up having both parents. i guess depende sa parents eh kung paano pinalaki yung inampon nilang bata. but then i cannot also understand the need to find out.
hmmm. very interesting post connie! and as usual very well written.
it made me think. illegitimate ang anak ko. he id denied of his father’s surname. there was one time na payag na daw ibigay apleyido niya. my son was 3 already! HELLO?! ha ha ha.
i can never beg for child support. i am not fixated on recognition, much less public announcement. susme, even if it happened na my son’s father is uber famous, i’d rather not draw attention to myself, so kaming mag-ina can live a life peacefully. it still blows mind why some other can do that. he he.
Connie Veneracion 02.21.08 at 8:56 pm
Hard to guess how they feel, right? I suppose that for some people, it’s like a need to feel complete. But I agree with you — that feeling of incompleteness wouldn’t be there if the people he looks up to as his parents have raised him well and with unconditional love.
But for opportunists, well, it might have nothing to do with the need to fill an emotional void.
Marjorie 02.22.08 at 2:01 am
Dear Connie,
Greetings! I’m a freelance writer/independent journalist writing an article for Balita newspaper. Balita is the leading Fil-Am newspaper in Southern California, reaching a population of over 1 million Fil-Ams. We can be found on the Web at http://www.balita.com.
The article I’m writing is on Pinoy bloggers and their growing influence on the Web. Would you be willing to be interviewed? It’ll be done entirely by email (I’m still trying to work out my Skype account!), so I’ll just send you questions for your response.
Please let me know if you have any questions. I do hope you’ll participate and look forward to hearing from you!
Kind regards,
Marjorie
Connie Veneracion 02.22.08 at 8:07 am
Hi Marjorie. I’m sorry but I’ve decided a while back to limit my media association with the publications I write for.
auee 02.22.08 at 9:10 pm
The tabloids were filled with Lohan’s nude pix last night. I didn’t know there’s a renewed interest in JFK.
I remember the US has this really sick reality show called “Who’s your daddy?” (or something like it). The contestant meets several men pretending to be her real dad. The game is yes, to guess correctly.
That’s a very public domain and yet people joined it. It can’t just be for filling the gap.
vic 02.28.08 at 10:08 pm
Connie, It is not much of a problem here, because if a father of a child is well to do and refuse to acknowledge his child, the mother could always go to court for child support in which the court may obliged the father to prove he is not the father. And since the label Illegitimate is no longer allowed as it will be in violation of the Equality Rights Provision of the Constitution, the child birth certificate may carry the mother’s name only.
And so far, the pattern of passing the Political dynasty to the next Generation do not happen in our Strong Party System Yet, maybe the Trudeau clan when the young Trudeau decided to follow hid dad’s footstep soon. Former PM Brian Mulroney’s son is happy hosting the Canadian Idol.
micketymoc 02.29.08 at 7:00 am
Canadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanada (deep breath) Canadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanada (cough) Canadacanadacanadacanadacanadacanada. Canada? Canada.
vic 02.29.08 at 10:25 am
mickey, get your attention again? what gives? steppin’ too much on poops, lately? hehehe
micketymoc 02.29.08 at 2:46 pm
Amazing, vic, you’ve finally managed to say something without a single Canadian reference in it!
vic 02.29.08 at 9:57 pm
Or are you being selective? selective as in just picking the one with the “Reference”? or you been reading and taking notes of hundred of posts and comments I have been posting all over? or just a typical ‘aha’ got you on this one..just wondering…
micketymoc 03.01.08 at 6:00 am
Wow, that’s two for two! Keep it up! I always knew you were capable of posting content that didn’t dig a small hole in the rock-hard frozen Canadian soil and hump it for all it was worth.
You see, every post about Canada that you do always presents a rose-tinted perspective of how things are done in Canada, which when juxtaposed against an original post that HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH CANADA IN THE FIRST PLACE, looks like you’re favorably comparing your adopted homeland against the rest of the world! It’s all-out pagyayabang with the added benefit of plausible denial!
But perhaps that’s changed now! Perhaps you’re reconsidering your Internet-wide habit of presenting unsolicited, tiresome, tangential rhapsodizing on Canadian values. Perhaps your own blog will be less about fellating the Canadian lifestyle and more on closeup shots of your wrinkled ballsack, which will be a WELCOME CHANGE from raving about the benevolent and efficient Canadian system that rescued you from the hellhole that the rest of the world has become!
vic 03.01.08 at 8:49 am
You speak as if you have even more perspective on Canada than Canadians, and If there is someone to judge about my post if it got something to do with the subject, should be the Blog publisher and not the Pakialamero like you are. Jugdemental like most, and don’t expect me to change, to late now to go back to that “hellhole” that you may find yourself nitpicking on someone, and if you’re enjoying it, keep going and I’ll keep dosing more of My Beloved Canada to fuel your Engine.
vic 03.01.08 at 8:51 am
And you can not do anything about it…
Connie Veneracion 03.01.08 at 12:10 pm
Vic, first of all, I do agree with Micketymoc’s observation that “every post about Canada that you do always presents a rose-tinted perspective of how things are done in Canada, which when juxtaposed against an original post that HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH CANADA IN THE FIRST PLACE, looks like you’re favorably comparing your adopted homeland against the rest of the world!”
Still, I have not prevented you from posting your Canada comments, here or in sassylawyer.com before I closed it, thinking other readers would benefit by getting insights from a Pinoy living in Canada. You know, in the tradition of “sharing experiences.”
BUT. But the comparisons are neither fair nor reasonable. You can’t justly compare how things are done in a rich country like Canada with how they are done in a poor country like the Philippines. The demographics, culture and resources are different.
Secondly, often, the comparisons are irrelevant since a comment thread is meant to discuss the subject treated in the entry. While discussion of relevant topics is always encouraged, it’s hard to find relevance in the Canada experience when it is presented as though it is the standard that should be followed to solve our problems here. And that’s the distinct feeling we get when almost every comment is about how it’s done in Canada.
vic 03.02.08 at 1:14 pm
Connie, coming from you as the owner of the blog, i’ll take it as it comes..thanks to you for your patience and tolerance and hope that my contributions in the past may not be taken as anything but in good intentions. good luck always…
Tom 03.03.08 at 2:38 am
Kaya nga, sectoral representation na.
lotusflower 03.05.08 at 10:12 am
Hi Connie,
I went to your sassylawyer blog because (surprise!) I found you on my stumble page but was redirected here. A Thank You is over due
Sorry if this comment is out of topic.
Cheers!
Rudy 03.08.08 at 3:04 am
Dear Sassy Connie,
I was laughing out loud after reading the comments of Vic and Mickey. These are two Pilipinos who are proud and both loves their countries. To me Canada is a nice country, but I love Philippines just the same being my adopted and my mother country. Just likke they say in Batangas, “ala eh”, here they say “nice eh?”
Connie Veneracion 03.08.08 at 1:38 pm
lotusflower, thank me for…?? Whatever it is, you’re welcome.
The heart is big enough to love both, right, Rudy?
micketymoc 03.11.08 at 6:48 am
Rudy, I’m in no position to decide whether Vic loves the Philippines, but I find it telling that Vic calls himself Canadian (Jesus, look at his blog - a more pronounced humping of Canada’s leg I have yet to see), and that every comment of his all over the blogosphere use the barest excuse just to bring up how good Canada is at everything.
Blog entry: “Nicole from Subic deserves justice!” Vic’s comment: “In Canada, women are protected by bla bla bla…”
Blog entry: “Gloria Administration vs. Philippine Senate.” Vic’s comment: “We don’t have that problem here. You see, in Canada…”
Look, I’m sure that Canada is as nice as Vic says it is, just that incessant favorable comparisons of Canada vs. the Philippines wears rather thin after a while.
BlogusVox 03.11.08 at 5:49 pm
That’s more like it! Seems like the “gang†found a new venue to hang-out. Who ever said that this blog is not as colorful as the Sassy Lawyer.
Connie Veneracion 03.11.08 at 8:19 pm
LOL I have prepared something for the “gang”. Will open commenting after Easter Sunday.
Bookmarked! by Sassy Lawyer
Rudy 03.13.08 at 2:28 am
Dear Mickey,
I am begining to feel, how you felt about Vic. I will you a short story. In an asian store, I met a fellow Pilipino. Sabi ko, kumusta ka? sabi niya “fine thank you”. Sabi ko, “taga saan ka sa atin?, sabi niya “somewhere in —- ( place ommited). And you?” Sagot ko: “Sa Maynila na ako lumaki. Naiinis na ako kaya sabi ko, “Gaano ka na ba katagal dito” sabi niya, ” About four years na, and you?” Sagot ko “apat na pung taon na” and I looked what he was buying and it was dried fish. He still eats “tuyo” and yet hindi na siya maronung magsalita ng tagalog.
Connie, thanks for keeping the “gang”
Connie Veneracion 03.13.08 at 10:55 am
Rudy, you captured the scenario perfectly in that short story.
micketymoc 03.14.08 at 2:36 pm
Tumpak… este, all right!